I got this e-mail from my friend Marynessa and boy! Doesn't this seem to be true? Sad fact is... not only women undergo the hurt and pain of losing someone and breaking up with the ones they love, men also go through these things though often times we'd rather shut up and not talk about what we feel... Hey, it ain't gay when men cry and feel hurt, right? Keeping in touch with your true feelings, I guess, will make you a better and stronger person. So here's to you Nessa! (Eto na yung email mo... hehehe)
WHAT HURTS.....
1. Letting go of person you've just learned to love.
2. Reminiscing the good times you shared together.
3. Shielding your heart from loving somebody.
4. Trying to hide what you really feel.
5. Trying to hide what you really feel.
6. Loving a person too much.
7. Giving up someone you never thought of giving up.
8. Having the right love at the wrong time.
9. Taking the risk to fall in love again.
10 . Hiding your relationship from someone else.
11. Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend.
12. Letting go, because every time you see that person, you only fall deeper.
13. Holding back only to find out it's too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn't let the feelings out.
14. Falling in love with someone you didn't mean to fall in love with.
15. Finding the perfect person with only one problem. They don't love you the way you want them to.
16. Helping the one you love make ligaw to your friend. (Sosy! hahaha)
17. Seeing the one you love crying for someone else.
18. The waiting also hurts like hell.
19. Having to hear, "I've met someone" (galing toh sa "My bestfriend wedding")
20. Agreeing to their wish to just be friends.
21 . Asking their freedom back because they'd be happier with the new person.
22. Asking you to forget that everything happened and be normal friends again.
23. Hearing that you're treated as a little sister/big bro.
24. Sharing their future plans for their new love with you.
25. You stopped being friends because their new love asked him to.
26. Being denied in front of people.
27. Telling you lies where they had been when actually, they were with a new friend or an old flame.
28. They told you they'd be leaving you to return to their ex (the one they left for you!)
29. Breaking someone's heart.
30. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy; that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you their commitment unless they fix themselves, then you are left hanging for a moment. Then they say, time will tell. Ang labo but you still decided to hope in them and trust them. (Ouch! hehehe)
31. Pretending you're OK when inside you're dying. (Isa pang Ouch!)
32. Pretending to be strong and recognizing your weaknesses.
33. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have.
34 . Being with someone you can't actually love.
35. Pretending you don't love a person whom you actually love.
36. Being in love.
37. Letting go even if you really don't want to; having no right to say you are hurting because it was your decision.
38. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you and not being able to help that person.
39. Having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable.
40. Having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that the things will never be the same again when he/she doesn't treat you with the same closeness as before.
41. Admitting that you love someone despite their imperfections.
42 . Finding out that the more you try to hate him/her, the more you end up loving him/her.
43. Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.
44. The thought that this person, used to really love you and you loved them as well kaso you didn't give enough kaya they gave up on you na.
45. Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else.
46. Seeing your partner battle for death.
47. Making a promise. And realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be delivered, the commitment is no longer there.
48. Believing love exists after you've been hurt.
49. Learning to forgive, learning to forget, learning to trust and learning to love again.
50. BUT the hardest thing really is... learning to love yourself. We tend to forget to do this. Always.
WHAT HURTS.....
1. Letting go of person you've just learned to love.
2. Reminiscing the good times you shared together.
3. Shielding your heart from loving somebody.
4. Trying to hide what you really feel.
5. Trying to hide what you really feel.
6. Loving a person too much.
7. Giving up someone you never thought of giving up.
8. Having the right love at the wrong time.
9. Taking the risk to fall in love again.
10 . Hiding your relationship from someone else.
11. Controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend.
12. Letting go, because every time you see that person, you only fall deeper.
13. Holding back only to find out it's too late, you both felt the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn't let the feelings out.
14. Falling in love with someone you didn't mean to fall in love with.
15. Finding the perfect person with only one problem. They don't love you the way you want them to.
16. Helping the one you love make ligaw to your friend. (Sosy! hahaha)
17. Seeing the one you love crying for someone else.
18. The waiting also hurts like hell.
19. Having to hear, "I've met someone" (galing toh sa "My bestfriend wedding")
20. Agreeing to their wish to just be friends.
21 . Asking their freedom back because they'd be happier with the new person.
22. Asking you to forget that everything happened and be normal friends again.
23. Hearing that you're treated as a little sister/big bro.
24. Sharing their future plans for their new love with you.
25. You stopped being friends because their new love asked him to.
26. Being denied in front of people.
27. Telling you lies where they had been when actually, they were with a new friend or an old flame.
28. They told you they'd be leaving you to return to their ex (the one they left for you!)
29. Breaking someone's heart.
30. Fighting for that one thing that would make you happy; that is, holding on to a person who can not guarantee you their commitment unless they fix themselves, then you are left hanging for a moment. Then they say, time will tell. Ang labo but you still decided to hope in them and trust them. (Ouch! hehehe)
31. Pretending you're OK when inside you're dying. (Isa pang Ouch!)
32. Pretending to be strong and recognizing your weaknesses.
33. Lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have.
34 . Being with someone you can't actually love.
35. Pretending you don't love a person whom you actually love.
36. Being in love.
37. Letting go even if you really don't want to; having no right to say you are hurting because it was your decision.
38. Seeing the person you love hurt because of you and not being able to help that person.
39. Having to face the fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable.
40. Having the courage to say I LOVE YOU to the person you love and finding out afterwards that the things will never be the same again when he/she doesn't treat you with the same closeness as before.
41. Admitting that you love someone despite their imperfections.
42 . Finding out that the more you try to hate him/her, the more you end up loving him/her.
43. Realizing how stupid your mistakes were that led to your break-up.
44. The thought that this person, used to really love you and you loved them as well kaso you didn't give enough kaya they gave up on you na.
45. Sharing the one you love with SOMEBODY else.
46. Seeing your partner battle for death.
47. Making a promise. And realizing that when the time has come for that promise to be delivered, the commitment is no longer there.
48. Believing love exists after you've been hurt.
49. Learning to forgive, learning to forget, learning to trust and learning to love again.
50. BUT the hardest thing really is... learning to love yourself. We tend to forget to do this. Always.
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